mindfulness

  • Learning to feel safe again

    Many of us spend our lives trying to become “better” versions of ourselves — more productive, more confident, less anxious, more resilient. But underneath many of these struggles is often something much simpler: We do not feel safe. Not necessarily… Continue reading

    Learning to feel safe again
  • We Were Never Really Taught How To Regulate

    Many of us were taught how to behave. Few of us were taught how to regulate. As children, emotions were often separated into “good” and “bad”. Calmness, quietness and compliance were rewarded, while anger, frustration, overwhelm or sadness were seen… Continue reading

  • Why emotions shape learning more than we think

    For a long time, education has treated learning as something mainly intellectual — as though thinking and feeling exist separately. But learning has always been emotional. Before we absorb information, solve problems or take risks, our brains are constantly asking… Continue reading

    Why emotions shape learning more than we think
  • Retraining the Brain: Growth, Kindness and Change (part 2)

    Retraining the brain is possible because, at any age, the brain can form new neural pathways. The question is not can we change — but how. How We Retrain the Brain Gently Change works best when it is slow and… Continue reading

  • The Lessons We Still Carry from School

    Have you ever noticed how much of school still lives inside your head? Not the dates, formulas, or French verbs we memorised — most of those are long gone. I’m talking about the messages we absorbed without even realising it.… Continue reading

    The Lessons We Still Carry from School